Monday, June 17, 2013

Building a Home: What I've Learned

It was New Year's Eve that Mr. Hash and I decided we would throw caution to the wind and build a new home.  We always said we wouldn't.  We always said we couldn't.  Yet, here we are allegedly 90ish days out from walking through the threshold of our brand spankin' new home.  Sounds magical doesn't it?  Welp, I would say it is less magical and more just grit your teeth, suck it up, cry a little, scream in frustration and try not to hurt your family members.  So what have I learned (so far)?

Choose the lot you want from the get-go.  Do not choose a lot, decide you don't like the elevation of that lot, move two lots down, then choose a lot that you finally end up settling on.  Not only does this cause a problem because your builder has to now get permits, but your price and your wife's blood pressure may rise.  It's going to be lovely though...

Decide what finishes you want BEFORE you go to your meetings.  This is the place where Grant and I really don't have an issue and here's why;  We both go for the "Rustic-Pottery Barn on a Target Budget" look.  However, when you sit down at those meetings you better have those Pinterest pins ready lady.  The amount of fixtures and finishes you need to choose are absolutely overwhelming.  Who knew there were so many shades of beige?  Then once you pick that beige tile backsplash, how big do you want that tile?  How do you want the tile laid?  Do you want it diagonal, subway, horizontal?  What kind of grout?  I'm telling you, it's overwhelming and this was the easy part for us because we have similar taste.  Not one disagreement. 

Let's just call this next point the "Listen to Your Wife" point.  When your wife says not to put the house on the market 5 months before the house is supposed to be done, listen to her.  Our house sold the day the pictures went up on the internet.  I can't make this up.  When your wife says you should rent a U-Haul, rent the U-Haul.  Making approximately seven trips back and forthwith a small trailer to store all of our belongings is not a good time.  When your wife asks you to communicate about what is going on, communicate about what is going on.  If she isn't planning on moving everything in a day and you are, you may want to tell her. otherwise you'll be dealing with an unhappy wife=unhappy life.

Beg, borrow and steal boxes!  Big thanks to our friends Kayla and Aaron who let us borrow a ton of big tubs, the copy room at school for letting me "borrow" the paper boxes and one of my students who moved in this fall and gave me all her big moving boxes.  If you aren't as luck as we were, U=Haul has fantastic boxes for a reasonable price and anything you don't use can be returned for a full refund!  Who knew?

Believe people when they say that building will take longer than your building manager says it will.  Of course we don't have our "official" move in date, but I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that due to snowmageddon on top of the non breakaway speed of our workers I'm thinking our move in date will be about a month later than the original date they gave us.

Speaking of workers though, I'm not sure if it helps or not, but its a nice gesture to bring drinks and snacks out to your construction workers.  Everett and I tried to visit the worksite every other day not only provide some entertainment for E Money (he loves to watch the tractors!!), but I hope it starts him towards making a habit of doing nice things for other people.  Now here's a tip: Go out a visit the site at night.  Look around on the ground.  What kind of wrappers and cans do you see?  I saw a lot of Wendy's and Coke, so that is what I bought.  Boom.

Finally, take lots of pics of the progress.  I'm sure we'll be happy we had them in the end.





 Oh, and don't forget to dance...







Saturday, April 27, 2013

Chewy Chocolate Toffee Cookies

Chocolate+Toffee= Need I say more?
 
Let me just say these are best straight from the oven so if you can bake them while your guests are eating dinner, it will knock their socks off!  I mean, they are unbelievably, wonderfully fantastic! You can freeze the the dough so they are easy to bake during your dinner party.  However, if you can't have them warm out of the oven, they are still delish.  Enjoy!
 
 1 cup (2 sticks) butter , softened
1 cup granulated sugar
3/4 cup packed light brown sugar
2 teaspoons vanilla extract
1/2 teaspoon salt
2 eggs
2 cups all-purpose flour
1/2 cup Cocoa
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 package of Heath milk chocolate toffee bits
 Cream together butter, granulated sugar, brown sugar, vanilla and salt. Add eggs and mix well.
 Slowly stir in flour, cocoa and baking soda. Mix just until well combined.
 Have your tiny helper pour in the toffee and fold it into the dough.

 Scoop dough onto silpat or parchment lined baking sheets.
Freeze, or...
Bake at 375 for 6-8.
If freezing, bake directly from freezer for about 2 minutes longer.

 
Recipe adapted from Jenny Steffens Hobick.

 
 


Cupcake Favors: A Tutorial

It's no surprise this gal LOVES a good cupcake.  I have made it one of my missions in life to perfect a made-from-scratch recipe {this part is still in progress}s.  However, I have been known to create some cakes for birthdays, banquets, clubs at school, faculty meetings, parties, the list goes on. 
A few weeks ago the softball team I coach was taking a road trip to Lawrence to play Lawrence High.  I own several cupcake carriers, but I thought it would be fun to give each of the girls their own individually wrapped cupcake.  It was a hit!  See how I did it...

 Choose your favorite cake and bake.
 Once your cupcakes have cooled, place them in a clear plastic cup.


 Now frost your cupcakes.  Don't do this first because it will be harder to get your cakes inside the cups.  It's always good to add some sprinkles!

 Place the plastic cup in a clear favor bag. (I bought mine at Wal-Mart, but you can find them at any craft store.)
 Tie a ribbon around the top and viola, done!
Here's the classy part.  I like to "borrow" the boxes left in the copy room at work.  Then I can use them to carry all my cupcakes.  They won't get smashed.  They are so tight in the cups that they won't shift in the car.  It's perfection, cheap and easy.

Monday, February 11, 2013

Couponing: A "Tutorial"

As promised, here's a little how-to when you are a wannabe extreme couponer.  Disclaimer: I work part-time.  There is NO WAY I would be able to do this if I worked full time.  Most of those crazies on the TV show don't work.  Couponing is their full time job.  Not joking.  It takes me an entire day to get everything in order.  I saw some lady on Extreme Couponers that couponed 7 hours a day, 7 days a week.  I am just trying to do this on a small scale.  When I go back to work, I'll probably give it up.  However for now, I am still in pursuit of my dream to have a store pay me to shop!
 
So here we are.  Sunday morning.  Paper day.  My goal is to get at least two inserts per week.  I usually have mine and my parents give me theirs.  How do the extreme couponers do it?  Well, a variety of ways.  They buy their coupons on ebay, steal them from their neighbors, hang out at coffee shops and wait for people to leave their paper on the table, buy extra papers (which I feel defeats the whole purpose of saving money) and oh yes,  dumpster dive!  Sick.  I'm good with just my two little inserts rather than 50-100!



What you want to do next is line up your inserts so you don't have to cut so much.   I usually tear them down the middle, match them up and cut a few at a time.
I don't cut everything. Just stuff I will actually use. This may mean not using your absolute favorite soap, shampoo, conditioner, lotion, detergent, etc. I use what I can find on sale. Now, we aren't eating Spam and processed crap, but I will buy Olay soap rather than Dove if it is what is on sale. Trust me, it's not that big of a difference. I also once read in Cosmopolitan that you should change up your shampoo and conditioner and we all know Cosmo knows all so they're probably right.  Change it up.  Take a walk on the wild side!

 What's that?  Where else do you get coupons?  Glad you asked.  The internet!  One of my faves is going to Target.com and doubling up my coupons!  Since there aren't any places around here that actually double coupons (another way those extreme couponers save so much darn money), you have to find stores that will allow you to use their coupon plus a manufacturers coupon.  Target is my favorite!  They also print out coupons when you check out, so that is an extra bonus!  It's like the TiVo of couponing.  The machine knows what you like and suggests other products!  Anyway, back to the computer and printing them yourself.   They will only let you print them once though so make sure your printer is ready. 
Coupons.com is another favorite of mine.  They also have an app for your phone that will allow you to load coupons to your preffered shopper cards so you don't have to worry about printing anything.
 Now get your coupons organized!  I use the Krazy Coupon Lady for all my couponing needs:).  Click here to start your binder and get yourself organized.  I also use the Kray Kray Lady to help me find deals.  You can sign up to receive emails about deals each day.  I also use the Money Saving Mom, but there are lots and lots of sites out there that will do the deal work for you. 
 
This is my little beauty...
 I use basball card holders to keep my coupons organized between the dividers.
 Now onto looking at your adds.  Basically I shop in what I call the trifecta (basically the stores close to my house).  I go for Target, CVS (a little hidden gem) and either Family Dollar or Dollar General (not the safest after dark I gotta tell ya, but whatever you can do to save a buck).  I usually throw in a Price Chopper or Wal-mart run sometime during the week as well, but I like to do all my shopping on one day so I stay close to home.  Here's why CVS is bomb.  In all the stores I visit, I only buy what is on sale AND that I have a coupon for.  Extra bonus if I am at Target buying something on sale, with a Target coupon plus a manufacturer's coupon.  I give myself extra snaps for those purchases.  It feels like stealing:).   Now, for CVS, I buy stuff that is on sale OR that I will get a coupon for next time I shop.  See that heading for "$5 extrabucks rewards"?  If you buy a certain amount of that product, you will receive money to use at your next visit.  Again, I only buy those items if I have a coupon but I like CVS because the stuff they have on special or sale is usually pretty common items I already have a coupon for.
Now here's where stores will try to fool you.  Take a look at this add.  Some of these items say "sale" other's don't, but they trick you into thinking they are on sale.  That Nivea chapstick looks like it is on sale, but truely it isn't.  They are just showing you what you would spend if you used the coupon in that day's paper.  The same goes for Target.  Be really careful and read the signs next to the product.  Sometimes Target will put up one of those red signs making you think it is on sale, but move that little red sign to the side, and the price on the red sign matches the actual price on the shelf underneath.  They also try to fool you and say something is on "sale", but read the sign carefully.  There are many times you are only saving ten to thirty cents.  Don't be fooled. 
I saw a documentary where it said that Americans are drawn to "sales".  Places like Kohls will say something is on sale, when really, that is their regular price.  Don't be fooled peeps.
My final step is clipping my coupons to each of the ads.  I take both my ad and coupon binder in with me just so I can double check and make sure items are priced right.  It happens every time.  I either think something is on sale, then read the fine print on the ad or something doesn't ring up on sale and I need to pull my ad out.  I bring my binder in because there is usually something on sale that was not in the ad and I can pick up some extra stuff from either a clearance isle (BONUS!) or just something else I can use later.
Now you're ready!  It takes time and practice to get it right and I am by no means a guru, I have just had a lot of trial and error.  The longer you coupon the more you will start to see trends.  "Healthy" food options like fiber rich cereal and low fat frozen meals will go on sale right after the new year so stock up.  Baking supplies, cold and flu meds and candy are on sale October-December.  Cold drinks and cleaning supplies are in the warmer months.  The list goes on and on.  You will also see that somethings are on sale week after week so you don't need to rush out and get them.  Toilet paper, dish soap and Kleenex are always on sale somewhere.  Just wait for the best deal.
Another disclaimer is that I don't coupon on most of our food.  I buy items like cereal, frozen vegetables and meals, applesauce, peanut butter, bread, pasta and pasta sauce, things like that with coupons.  However, my family eats A LOT of fresh food.  I try to buy mostly organic and I don't eat meat so there is a lot of veggies happening in the Hash house.  There just aren't coupons for that.  I found that my grocery bill was getting larger and larger so that is where all of this craziness began.  I couldn't justify spending $200 per week on groceries, even when fresh food is what is so expensive, I am not going to sacrifice my family's health to save money.  I buy the best I can and we eat fresh food as much as possible.  90% of the meals I make are fresh.  Couponing has helped lighten the load on personal items so that I can feel better about my budget when not buying my family processed food.
 
Good luck to you and again, stay tuned to see what a shopping trip is like and where I store all my loot.



Monday, February 4, 2013

Look Out Mickey!

Everett was about 2 weeks old when my mom looked at me and said, "I think I'm going to take him to Disney World," to which I answered, "Without his parents?"  "Sure," she said.  I replied, "Over my dead body".  And it started...

I believe it was about a month later that I started researching how much this was going to set me back.  I had criteria.  If I was going to Disney, I was doing Disney right.  We were staying on property.  We were staying for about a week.  We were doing the meal plan.  We weren't skimping on anything.  What Everett wanted, Everett got.  The first time I logged onto the Disney World website, the estimate I got was about half of what it is going to cost us, and that alone blew Grant's mind.  Looked like I needed to start saving.  To earn extra money, I started my own little sewing business and anytime I got a check for my birthday, a holiday or a stipend from school, I saved it.  I saved every.single.penny.  Every one, people.  I wanted to do this vacation without having to put anything on a credit card.  About a month ago we officially booked our hotel and today the flights came open.  We have our NONSTOP flights!  It's totally getting real now!  It's like planning a stinking wedding.

After hours of reading, researching and planning, it is all coming together and when a friend posted this video on FB today, I seriously cried.  My worst fear is that Everett will hate every minute of it and my three years of saving will go up in flames, but we've been prepping him and I haven't over planned.  Again, what Everett wants, Everett gets and if he wants to ride Dumbo for 6 days straight, fine by me.  That's why my parents are coming.  Grant and I can check out the Tower of Terror and tried Coke a Cola in different countries   They have that you know.  Watch out Mickey, here comes the wildest 3 year old you've ever seen!  And don't get your feelings hurt when he knocks you over and heads towards Nemo, we have some Disney movie brush ups to take care of.






Monday, January 14, 2013

Confessions of a Wannabe Extreme Couponer

If you've read it once, you've read it 100 times.  I'm a wannabe runner.  I'm not sure what makes a runner, but I know I'm not one of them.  I describe my running skills as "I just keep moving and try not to pass out".  There's no real skill involved.  I just keep slowly, slowly, slowly moving.  Now it's time I take on another wannabe hobby.  EXTREMEME COUPONING!  Anyone out there watch that show?  It is amazing and one step away from hoarding and I love it.  Now that we have Netflix I am well on my way to watching every episode.  If you haven't seen it, here is a checkout in all its glory.  Watch her go!
So the ultimate goal for me has been to save the elusive 99.9% or only pay tax like they do on the show.  So far, no dice.  However, I did have a pretty good day yesterday!  I was going to take a picture of my loot, but some of it needed to get in the freezer or refrigerator so sorry.  Next time.
Here's what I picked up-

From Target:
2 Glade candles
4 cans of Campbell's All Natural soup
1 12 pack of GoGo Squeeze Applesauce
2 Archer Farm's frozen pizza
3 Greek yougurt cups
2 bags of shredded cheese
2 boxes of Swiffer Duster refills
1 box of Swiffer Wet Mop refills
8 Healthy Choice soup cups
Total- $33.12 + $5 gift card to use next time / Savings of $60.94

From CVS:
3 Pantine shampoos
3 Pantine conditioners
5 Dawn dish washing soaps
2 Covergirl eyeliners
1 Johnson's Baby soap
1 Johnson's Baby Bubble Bath
1 eight pack of Diet Coke
1 eight pack of Coke
Total- $26.52 + $10 gift card for next time / Savings of $44.99

If you're interested in how I do it?  Check back later this week for deets.

Saturday, December 22, 2012

Family Pics

The LeVars decided 2 years without a professional family sesh was quite long enough. Let me restate that. The one and only time my family has ever had professional pictures taken was the day Everett was baptized. He couldn't even sit up by himself and let's just say white was not the best color for someone who just had a babe...yikes.
We called on an old buddy, Alicia Alferman of the Mayfly to take on our crazy brood at Kauffman Gardens. The setting was pretty cold but absolutely gorge. These aren't our usual Bethany Good, hang out in a field and play pics. My buddy Bethany is on maternity leave with her second little precious lady so we are giving her a much deserved break. Grampie is sort of into the sit and pose pictures anyway so this worked out perfect.