Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Great News and a Uniform


Let me just start with the fact that last year I went back to work with 6 short weeks left of school. On my way to work I cried every...single...day. Then when I got to work, I cried. When I went to softball practice after school, I cried. I always said I wasn't going to be "that" person, but it turns out, I was. I have much respect for people who take their babies to daycare every day. There is no way I could do that. I would be curled up in the fetal position behind my desk in a puddle of tears. Although, my kid probably would be whooping it up with his friends. When we took him to visit a pre-school, he wouldn't have given a rip if we left him there for the day. He was listening to the teacher read Brown Bear, Brown Bear and playing with the blocks in the 1 year old classroom.

This year was slightly easier. I knew my little bambino was safe and sound at our house with my mom. Being in middle school, I was able to get home a little earlier and spend the afternoon playing with him. However, being away from him was still really hard for me. I had explored the option of job-sharing and working part time right after Everett was born. This year Grant and I talked pretty seriously about it as an option for our family. I was slightly worried because as anyone who knows me well knows, I like to shop. I used to shop quite a bit for myself. Now my days are spent at Baby Gap and Janie and Jack. When you have a kid who grows like a weed, it is hard to keep him in stylin' duds for very long. He needs new things all the time! That was really the only drawback. I wanted to provide Everett with everything he could possibly want. I know, he is only one, he doesn''t want anything but animal crackers and a basketball. However, I think every parent wants to provide their children with "everything" and I knew I couldn't do that if I wasn't working full time.

Grant and I talked about how much more important it was that I was at home with him for the little time we had before he was in school. That was way more important than baby Uggs (Yes, I wanted those BAD but his chubby feet wouldn't fit into them anyway. Problem solved!). Once we made the decision that I could do it, I started dreaming about all the fun outings we will have...reading at the library, open gym playing, long walks, afternoon movies ah, the possibilities are endless! I then had to talk to my principal and fill out an application. My friend Aimee who just had a little girl this year was totally down for coming on over to Mission Trail to teach with me. Double bonus!

Last week I got the super news I had been waiting for. Aimee and I were accepted for a job share! I know it will be a little difficult in the finance department and coordinating my classroom with another person, but I have never been so excited! I think about it every day I leave the little boy at home and head to work.

I have been stocking up a little on my "comfortable mom clothes". I am always so envious of those moms I see dropping their kids off before they head to the gym or the ones running errands with their toddler their shopping cart. You know the ones. I call them "Leawood Moms". They may not be the nicest people on earth, but they sure know how to dress! I wanted to be like that. Comfortable and chic. I have already started my collection! Please view the new "uniform" I will be wearing as a part-time stay at homer! Let's just say, this is what I wanted to look like-

However, these are from Heidi Klum's New Balance collection so I had to settle for the Target knock off. So not as cute, but it's the best I could do. Also, I am replacing the boots with running shoes. Come on people! I have a toddler to chase!

2 comments:

  1. WAHOO!! Congrats friend! And welcome to the world of Leawood moms! (spoken by a non Leawood mom) Looking forward to play dates next year with you and the E man!

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  2. Soooo jealous! Congrats mama. My company provides free insurance (medical and dental) for all three of us but if that ever ends I'll be joining you! Have fun with that little boy. As soon as Brady nails this walking thing we are in for a baby monkey biz play date!

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